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2 years ago
Wendy

I was extremely lucky to have met and fell in love with Kev and we had a truly wonderful relationship. It’s very difficult to put into word what Kev and I had and what he meant to me (apart from everything) but, in my eyes, it was just perfect in every way. To me he was my best friend, soul mate, and life partner and there is so much I’m going to miss about him, from his phenomenal sense of humour, his mischievous, bubbly character, the way he could reduce you to tears of laughter from his own infectious laugh and his big warming smile and hugs. He was always there for me, supporting me with absolutely everything, he really was my rock and I’m not sure I’m ever going to really get over losing him. Life, will and does go on and I know he would want me to live life to the full for both of us. Kev taught me so much in the 21 years we shared and he was still teaching me right up till the end. In his last few weeks, he was making sure I could do household jobs that he could no longer do and showed me how to use his tools, required for certain jobs that might need doing…. So, Kev 😊 Kev had made sure that everything he could do was done, to try and make his passing easier on me, from arranging his funeral plan, writing he’s own eulogy and making sure everything for the house was in order. Everything he did, since his illness began in May was for me and to ensure I would be ok. Right up to the end, Kev was putting everyone before himself, so selfless which is one of the many beautiful characteristic qualities about him. We shared so much in our time together but most of all our lives. We were one and I would not change a single thing in the whole time I was with Kev, except, I would have found him sooner, so I could have loved him longer. Life can be so cruel when it takes someone so precious and dear so early. Love is unconditional and eternal and I know that Foxy will always be with me. x x

£50.00 (+ £12.50 Gift Aid)
2 years ago
Steve Green

In the 25 or so years I knew Kev, my memories of him are of a happy, smiley, welcoming friend. A fun loving, adventurous spirit with a cheeky sense of humour, a truly genuine person! Always seeking out the quirky, interesting things in life, Kev’s choice of cars, caravans, holidays, even jobs, were far from your run of the mill choices. So many memories! From the early years, the games nights he’d arrange round his place, playing Frogger and horse racing games with horses on lengths of string. The pub crawls, round Stortford, JRs, Scruffy Macs, Chicagos where he introduced us to his new girlfriend, Wendy. Camping at the BMF rally, Audley End summer concerts, Halloween punting through Cambridge and more recently, welly walks through the Fenland woods with him, Wendy and the 4-legged kids. I think Kev would have made a great tourist guide, he always enjoyed telling us all about the places we’d be walking through. Be it Ely or the Fens, he’d be telling us all about them as we walked, like a walking, talking guide book. Re-training as a nurse and later volunteering as a blood biker, Kev was very much a giver, but he was also a big joker! He used to like to rib me over such things as liking the Proclaimers, always being last to finish dinner and more recently buying an “old man’s bike”! All done in great humour and with that cheeky grin, making us all laugh, they became a bit of a standing joke! I remember a group of us would be out for a meal, often at Ha Ha bar in Cambridge. At some point I’d hear, “Steve, hurry up mate, we’re all waiting for our desserts” or “We waiting for you again Steve?” then I’d hear “No, go on mate, you enjoy it…..we can wait!”. All classic Kev humour! He’d try to look annoyed and would screw his face up into a frown but he couldn’t really pull it off, that cheeky grin would come through and betray the joke. So sorry we never managed to get away on that weekend bike trip Kev!

£50.00 (+ £12.50 Gift Aid)